A one sided love story

Love is unpredictable. We don’t know when it would strike, where it would strike and whom it will strike. One day we will wake up and found ourselves looking at someone and imagining the “what ifs”: what if we will be having a relationship? What if he will smile at me? What if he accidentally bumps on me? Strange ideas do come in mind.

Love is a sweet feeling but it can also be bitter sweet, for there is a very painful kind of love. A kind of love that everyone might have or might be experienced, it is called a one side love. It comes in many ways, it can be in situation where you love someone but he or she is already in a relationship or it can also be you in a relationship and your so in love with your partner but he is indifferent to you or doesn’t feel exactly what you are feeling. You try your very best to be noticed, just to strike a conversation just to let him smile at you. You tend to be aggressive and compose at the same time. You’re itching for his attention, you want to grab him and hold him tight but he’s far from your reach. He might be physically near but he’s feelings for you is light year from your existence.

You tend to daydream, you tend to make believe, and you tend to hope that someday you’ll end up together that someday he will be able to return your feelings. And that is where the pain starts, you keep on holding to such matters that every move he makes is a big matter for you. You keep on expecting but nothing happens. You are there, a background for a relationship that would never seem to shatter. But still, you’re not ready to give up even though the conclusion is already implied that you would never be together but you’re still there hoping that the story would shift from her to you. Every kisses and hugs, every glances and smiles contribute to the thousands of arrows of pain being struck to you.

You would say I’m happy for you, You guys are so sweet, I’m letting you go, If you don’t feel the same way about me then go. Those words keep ringing in your head but still you’re holding on the quote “if we’re meant to be then you would come back to me”. A one sided love story, a story of endless struggles of being noticed, of trying to impressed, of trying hard, of waiting, of hoping, of loving, and of taking as much pain as you can take in.

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I just saw an episode of Oprah about animals and of course animal owners. I was impressed of the whole episode for I, myself is an animal lover and what I learned during that episode is that even animals do need best friends and they can be as loyal to their friend as they want to.

What touched me the most was the story of Tara, an elephant and Bella, a dog. As what I have seen the video the two of them are really close to each other’s hearts. Tara would be seen following Bella and Bella would play with Tara as well. I don’t know much about animal behaviors but what I have seen is such an interesting sight that I could not afford to not write about it. As the episode continued, it was revealed that Bella was once been hospitalized and what’s more amazing? It was when it was also revealed that during those days that Bella was hospitalized, Tara would often come and visit her friend, Bella. Even though they are both animals they have showed signs of friendship and loyalty beyond the imaginations and sometimes beyond what we can do as humans.

Tara did not left Bella alone and just joined with the other elephants but instead visited her. As the saying goes “that’s what friends are for” really applies to their friendship. As humans, we can learn a lot from them. That we should always treasure our friends for we might not know that they will be the ones who would catch us, who would be there during our times of struggles, who would uplift us when we are depressed. We should not take them for granted for as we know they are already part of our lives and taking them for granted is not an option.

Share them secrets… Have an overnight at their houses… Do home works with them… Laugh with them… Lean on them… Cry on them… For that’s what friends are for.

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